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The Safe Emo­tion­al Spaces of Wes Anderson’s Cin­e­ma – Part One

26 Sep 2023

Colourful tents and camping equipment on a sandy beach, with sailboats in the distance.
Colourful tents and camping equipment on a sandy beach, with sailboats in the distance.
Through con­ver­sa­tions with psy­chol­o­gists, neu­ro­di­ver­gent friends, Jason Schwartz­man and the man him­self, Sophie Monks Kauf­man inves­ti­gates the metic­u­lous worlds of Wes Ander­son and their potent emo­tion­al frequencies.

The most remark­able thing about Richie Tenenbaum’s sui­cide attempt in Wes Anderson’s The Roy­al Tenen­baums is that it moves to the rhythms of enter­tain­ment and is all the more dev­as­tat­ing for it. The set-up fore­grounds Raleigh St. Clair foetal on the sofa, hav­ing just found out that his wife has cheat­ed on him many times. His exper­i­men­tal sub­ject, Dud­ley, tries to uplift him with a word game, which in itself is mov­ing as Dud­ley is usu­al­ly found pas­sive­ly vib­ing. Only in the back­ground does Richie slip into the bath­room to shave his beard and cut his wrists.

Over the next 90 sec­onds, through the use of music, beat-matched edit­ing, mon­tage, homage to French cin­e­ma, char­ac­ter act­ing from an ensem­ble cast and Anderson’s sig­na­ture tragi­com­e­dy, the screen is flood­ed with two extra­or­di­nary waves of feel­ing. The first is the lone­li­ness of some­one who has decid­ed he does not belong to this world. The sec­ond arrives at the speed of fam­i­ly, friends and stal­wart Dud­ley hot-tail­ing it to be with him in hos­pi­tal: not only does Richie belong to this world, he belongs to a tribe that accepts him at his lowest.

There are count­less rea­sons why a per­son can feel inco­her­ent in the course of nor­mal life, and the extent to which it is help­ful to pathol­o­gise this is a mat­ter for each indi­vid­ual to decide. Yet, as some­one diag­nosed last Sep­tem­ber – as an adult in my 30s – with both ADHD and autism, I find neu­ro­di­ver­gence’ to be a rev­e­la­to­ry label for now. Even so, I hope to even­tu­al­ly find a more inclu­sive expres­sion of my exis­ten­tial strug­gles. For, as Charles Bramesco [friend, LWL con­trib­u­tor, man about town] recent­ly wrote in his Aster­oid City review, We’re all con­tend­ing with inte­ri­or dra­mas about which every­one else knows nothing.”

To avoid mak­ing gen­er­al claims about an expe­ri­ence that is infi­nite­ly diverse in its pre­sen­ta­tion, this piece will cleave to my own tri­als; how­ev­er, I know that I am not alone as a neu­ro­di­verse per­son in feel­ing both rep­re­sent­ed and soothed by Anderson’s cin­e­ma. Weigh­ing in with her own expe­ri­ences will be Lil­lian Craw­ford, whose amaz­ing Moon­rise King­dom episode of the Autism Through Cin­e­ma pod­cast sits sweet­ly in the cen­tre of a career that includes both cul­tur­al crit­i­cism and improv­ing access to cin­e­ma. This lat­ter project cur­rent­ly takes the form of relaxed screen­ings at the BFI and The Gar­den Cin­e­ma. She writes a com­ple­men­tary col­umn that illu­mi­nates the sen­so­ry expe­ri­ence of being a neu­ro­di­ver­gent audi­ence member.

Two children sitting by a stream in a wooded area, with tents and camping equipment visible in the background.

The term neu­ro­di­ver­si­ty’ (ND) was coined in the 1990s by Aus­tralian soci­ol­o­gist, Judy Singer, as a cel­e­bra­to­ry alter­na­tive to clin­i­cal diag­noses like autism’ and Asperger’s Syn­drome’ which often came with the tag that a per­son was abnor­mal and need­ed to be fixed. She argued that Neu­ro­di­ver­si­ty may be every bit as cru­cial for the human race as bio­di­ver­si­ty is for life in gen­er­al.” These words were pub­lished in The Atlantic in 1998, where she added, Who can say what form of wiring will prove best at any giv­en moment?”

Her chal­lenge has grown into the Social Mod­el of Dis­abil­i­ty, which tells us that a per­son is not nec­es­sar­i­ly dis­abled by their health con­di­tions, but by society’s fail­ure to ade­quate­ly accom­mo­date their needs. Whether ND con­di­tions are best framed as dif­fer­ences or dis­abil­i­ties is a hot­ly con­test­ed sub­ject that I wish to swerve in the name of try­ing to clar­i­fy aspects of my ND expe­ri­ence through the char­ac­ters that Ander­son tends to por­tray. Simul­ta­ne­ous­ly, the height­ened pro­duc­tion design is an entry point to the fact that envi­ron­men­tal organ­i­sa­tion plays a huge role in deter­min­ing ND qual­i­ty of life. Indeed, Anderson’s devo­tion to form offers almost a pla­ton­ic ide­al in terms of a famil­iar, colour-cod­ed and sign­post­ed uni­verse where chaos is tamed (at least visu­al­ly speak­ing) and emo­tion­al­ly messy char­ac­ters are dig­ni­fied by a pris­tine aesthetic.

Out of a per­ceived or real pres­sure to blend in, neu­ro­di­ver­gents tend to have social anx­i­ety and believe that we need to mask both that social anx­i­ety and our true selves in order to be accept­ed. This is par­tic­u­lar­ly the case for neu­ro­di­ver­gents who have not been diag­nosed until lat­er in life who have accu­mu­lat­ed a lot of cop­ing strate­gies as a result of pre­tend­ing to be some­thing that we’re not. These cop­ing strate­gies are workarounds we have found to get the job done or coex­ist amongst neu­rotyp­i­cals,” says Saman­tha Hiew, a Renais­sance woman with a dizzy­ing range of qual­i­fi­ca­tions. She has a PhD from UCL in Can­cer Virol­o­gy and Child­hood Leukaemia, and has worked as a mod­el, pre­sen­ter, and com­mu­ni­ca­tions lead. Fol­low­ing a diag­no­sis of ADHD at the age of 40 Hiew found­ed ADHD Girls, a social impact com­pa­ny with a dual mis­sion to empow­er girls and women with ADHD to thrive in soci­ety” and improve neu­ro­di­ver­si­ty under­stand­ing via inter­sec­tion­al lens”. To that end she works as an Inter­sec­tion­al­i­ty & Neu­ro­di­ver­si­ty Pro­fes­sion­al Speak­er and Con­sul­tant, speak­ing at events and going into work­places with the pur­pose of empow­er­ing the neu­ro­di­verse and edu­cat­ing the neurotypical.

Hiew explains that mask­ing man­i­fests in dif­fer­ent ways for dif­fer­ent peo­ple, how­ev­er a com­mon one for ADHDrs is, in an effort not to blurt out inter­rupt­ing thoughts, we repress and for­get them, end­ing up silenced and drained by try­ing to spot the right cue. Where­as autists who would instinc­tive­ly self-soothe through stim­ming (repet­i­tive move­ment and/​or sounds) may exhaust them­selves by try­ing to squash this impulse or find the most social­ly palat­able ver­sion of it (like play­ing with their hair). Longterm, it’s a los­ing game to find accep­tance by rou­tine­ly betray­ing our­selves. Hiew says that ND peo­ple often swing between extremes and some try to cope with their innate dif­fer­ence by pur­su­ing a per­fec­tion­ist per­son­al­i­ty. This res­onates deeply as some­one who lost years to an obses­sive pur­suit of the so-called per­fect body”, a doomed goal onto which I pro­ject­ed noth­ing less than tran­scen­dence from all my problems.

There is a dialec­ti­cal breadth to Anderson’s cin­e­ma in which things do indeed look per­fect, but it isn’t the vacant sheen of a car com­mer­cial or the mis­lead­ing glam­our of an anorex­ic mod­el, it is more like the pol­ished glass cas­es with­in an exhi­bi­tion curat­ed to let a cor­nu­copia of curios shine. There is a sat­is­fy­ing con­flict that I expe­ri­ence watch­ing films which com­bine the hope­less­ly aspi­ra­tional (aes­thet­ics and wit) with raw pro­fun­di­ty (insol­u­ble emo­tion­al prob­lems). There is no sim­ple or straight­for­ward way to parse his work, just as there is no sim­ple or straight­for­ward way for an ND per­son to move through the world. As Hiew says, The hard­er we try to fit into soci­ety, the more we feel like we don’t belong, and the more it caus­es com­pli­ca­tions inside our minds: anx­i­ety, depres­sion, or feel­ing dys­reg­u­lat­ed because we aren’t accept­ed even in our clos­est sphere.”

Illustration of a gift box with a bow, in shades of pink, blue, and brown.

Mask­ing is not a thing in the Ander­son-verse. Time and again, he finds humour in the kind of anar­chic emo­tions that would have an ND per­son melt­ing down, before find­ing a place for them with­in an ordered, quick-march­ing scene. Char­ac­ters may be dead­pan and restrained, but they do not plas­ter on a smile and say, Fine, thanks!” when they are not fine, thanks. Of course it was dark, it was a sui­cide note,” Richie responds to friend-and-love-rival, Eli Cash, after wak­ing up in the hos­pi­tal. Dia­logue is writ­ten along a spine of abra­sive integri­ty, with even periph­er­al char­ac­ters seem­ing to emerge from a shroud of per­son­al depths.

In The Grand Budapest Hotel, a role-call of Ander­son col­lab­o­ra­tors show up for bare­ly a minute of screen time to play a ret­inue of moustachio’d hotel concierges aka The Soci­ety of the Crossed Keys. After fresh­ly-sprung jail­bird Mon­sieur Gus­tave H puts in an emer­gency call for their mys­te­ri­ous pow­ers, one by one they per­form riffs on the same rit­u­al: take the SOS call; hand over a task to their lob­by boy; lob­by boy steps in for any­thing from flavour­ing the soup to admin­is­ter­ing CPR; call the next moustachio’d hotel concierge. Bar Bill Mur­ray who appears briefly once more, none of these actors are seen again, hav­ing fleet­ing­ly had fun with their per­son­alised take on a secre­tive and exact­ing man.

If you are in an envi­ron­ment that sup­ports you to be your­self, and you have the priv­i­lege to unmask, then it is a good way to heal,” says Hiew. Unmask­ing is some­thing that can hap­pen alone in the dark of a movie the­atre and I now under­stand why the onscreen evo­ca­tion of raw-yet-pre­cise emo­tion­al fre­quen­cies caus­es a dopamine surge in my body. We’re all look­ing for that thing that helps us get over our past,” Hiew explains fur­ther. In order to do that, we need to under­stand what makes us unique. Unmask­ing and being authen­tic helps us get there.” Wes Anderson’s cin­e­ma is too vast to be reduced in any one way, but it is an are­na where hav­ing inap­pro­pri­ate feel­ings is the norm. We can let down our cen­sors and laugh at absurd sources of suf­fer­ing and the try­ing task of stay­ing con­nect­ed to our near­est and dear­est – a pur­suit that, per­haps, moti­vates Anderson’s film­mak­ing in the first place.

The short answer is yes, I think,” he says, when I put the ques­tion to the film­mak­er. Well, it is part of a moti­vat­ing fac­tor. Most of my time I spend with my wife and daugh­ter, we have lots of fun togeth­er and we go places togeth­er, but my movie life is a sep­a­rate thing and a sec­ond fam­i­ly, in a way. Often with some of the cast mem­bers in the movies, I don’t see or rarely see them except for when we work togeth­er. Then, when we’re work­ing, we see each oth­er every day. Every day at din­ner, whether peo­ple were work­ing or not, they’re all talk­ing about the thing we’re doing togeth­er. It kind of binds us.”

A well-dressed man with a moustache stands at a vintage wooden desk in a luxurious, old-fashioned setting, holding a telephone receiver.

I ask if there’s a uni­fy­ing prin­ci­ple that binds his col­lab­o­ra­tors, beyond tal­ent, as he often works with the same cast and crew over many years or even decades. Uni­fy­ing prin­ci­ple, I don’t see one. I think there’s no prin­ci­ple. It’s the peo­ple who’ve cho­sen to want to stay with me and who I’ve had good expe­ri­ences with. Their per­son­al­i­ties can be so sharply dif­fer­ent.” He gives a bot­tled sense of his var­ied col­lab­o­ra­tors. Mile­na Canonero has a group that moves with her from place to place. And the group is very focused on her and she’s Ital­ian and has a fun­ny and wild way of com­mu­ni­cat­ing. Adam Stock­hausen has a vast team, but he works with a qui­et, pre­cise method. Bob Yeo­man is always very funny.”

Maybe there’s some­thing in that about cre­at­ing a world, or a fam­i­ly, and the famil­iar­i­ty of, Oh, this per­son is here and they’ll do this thing that we’re used to them doing,’” says Ben Adler, an asso­ciate pro­duc­er on Wes Anderson’s films. Jarvis [Cock­er] will be some­where doing a song, and singing it in the movie and record­ing it, and then he’ll play it in front of peo­ple as a con­cert. In the same way that fam­i­lies and groups have their tra­di­tions, I think that’s impor­tant to Wes, and makes it extreme­ly spe­cial for all the peo­ple involved.”

Lon­don­er Ben moved to Paris from the UK to study film in 2006 and was first hired by Ander­son in 2009 after respond­ing to a mys­te­ri­ous Craigslist post stat­ing that an inter­na­tion­al direc­tor was look­ing for an intern. Ben worked as an assis­tant on Fan­tas­tic Mr. Fox and The Grand Budapest Hotel before becom­ing an asso­ciate pro­duc­er on Isle of Dogs, The French Dis­patch and Aster­oid City. He is often involved in some­thing he believes is cru­cial to a Wes Ander­son pro­duc­tion: pas­toral care. A col­lec­tive spir­it is fos­tered as the cast and crew live togeth­er dur­ing the shoot: There are no trail­ers, there are no five-star hotels, you’re not get­ting room ser­vice and there might not even be a mini­bar in the hotel rooms but everybody’s eat­ing break­fast and din­ner togeth­er, before and after the shoot. It real­ly fos­ters an envi­ron­ment more like a the­atre troupe or a sum­mer camp – a fam­i­ly, real­ly. I think Wes knows that every­body mak­ing the film will have a greater expe­ri­ence if it’s like that and, in some way, maybe that feel­ing does make it onto the screen.”

On top of this, there are often spe­cial touch­es and activ­i­ties off-cam­era that would slot right into the movies them­selves. To wit: the actors in The French Dis­patch were gift­ed a pair of local­ly made slip­pers (“Charentais­es” – a spe­cial­i­ty of the Char­ente region where the film was made) which became the unof­fi­cial uni­form of down­time. The exis­tence of the Aster­oid City pro­duc­tion vil­lage in Chinchón, Cen­tral Spain gave rise to a ten­nis tour­na­ment, Bob Yeoman’s movie nights, all washed down with Bryan Cranston’s tequi­la. Mean­while, the chef of the local hotel made meal­times a curat­ed voy­age around the regions of Spain. I have a bur­geon­ing obses­sion with the numer­ous vari­eties of gaz­pa­cho thanks to that expe­ri­ence,” says Adler, adding, The kind of peo­ple that are com­ing on this adven­ture with Wes are gen­er­al­ly up for a side project. Fun and unex­pect­ed things tend to devel­op and hap­pen almost constantly.”

The view from the oth­er side seems to chime with Adler’s descrip­tion of a whole­some, famil­ial, pro­tec­tive and – first-and-fore­most – cre­ative envi­ron­ment. Actor Jason Schwartz­man con­firms that this has been the case as far back as Rush­more, Anderson’s sec­ond fea­ture. Schwartz­man, aged 17, became the pre­co­cious and imag­i­na­tive school­boy, Max Fis­ch­er, and a friend­ship hit the ground run­ning. Wes and I were in this hotel and we would have din­ner almost every night togeth­er in his room. We would talk about movies, the next day’s plans and what we were think­ing about,” recalls Schwartz­man, trac­ing a line between what moved him then and still does now. It’s this con­tin­u­a­tion of life and work that I remem­ber was so impor­tant to me. It’s still the same thing. It’s just that the din­ner table is bigger.”

One major thing that can make an ND per­son feel safe to unmask is the feel­ing that the oth­er has, in their own way, done the same. Authen­tic­i­ty calls out to authen­tic­i­ty. When Schwartz­man talks about Ander­son invit­ing col­lab­o­ra­tors, not just into his process but into his per­son­al space, it res­onates as a col­lec­tive inti­ma­cy that makes its way onto the screen. Although there is a uni­form mode across any giv­en ensem­ble, each actor makes a strong per­son­al impres­sion and feels very much like them­selves, even as they expend great effort to hit spe­cif­ic marks and deliv­er dia­logue at pace. If Jean Luc Godard was right when he said that every fic­tion film is a doc­u­men­tary of its actors, Wes Ander­son makes doc­u­men­taries about actors show­ing some­thing real to each oth­er and sup­port­ing each oth­er to do this expos­ing work.

Per Schwartz­man: It’s so won­der­ful because you realise how much peo­ple want to be togeth­er and talk to each oth­er and how unique it is. The work is hard and there’s a cama­raderie every night after­wards.” At the cen­tre of this cama­raderie is the head of the sports team, scout­mas­ter Ander­son. The care that flows to and from him is espe­cial­ly cru­cial for Schwartz­man who counts Ander­son as one of his clos­est rela­tion­ships out­side of his blood fam­i­ly. Their 25-year friend­ship is thread­ed around their sto­ry­telling adven­tures. Our whole rela­tion­ship has always been so encour­ag­ing in terms of going off and find­ing new inter­ests. Wes is end­less­ly curi­ous and always search­ing for new things. Our rela­tion­ship has a lot of that so it’s a build­ing up of a store of pos­i­tive scar tis­sue,” He cor­rects him­self, “ – all scar tis­sue is pos­i­tive, I guess.”

This nur­tur­ing inter­per­son­al dynam­ic is the expres­sion of an ide­al, as, for ND peo­ple to thrive, we need lov­ing encour­age­ment and even cheer­lead­ers who see us unmasked and still believe in us more than we believe in our­selves. It has a growth effect on Jason’s faith in his act­ing range, too. When I read the part in Aster­oid City, I remem­ber think­ing, Wow, this is far­ther than me. I don’t think I can do this.’ But Wes was like, No, no, no, you got­ta grow.’ Going into this ter­ri­to­ry that was unknown for the both of us was real­ly scary and fun. There’s no one that I’d rather do that kind of thing with than him. We love each oth­er. He’s push­ing me to go to places that I haven’t been before while know­ing where I’ve been.”

Trophy with golden base and blue and brown accents.

Alex­ithymia means hav­ing no words for a feel­ing or thought” – to elab­o­rate: The cog­ni­tive inabil­i­ty to encode, iden­ti­fy, and describe one’s own and anoth­er person’s emo­tions.” [source]. Iron­i­cal­ly, when the doc­tor dropped that term in the mid­dle of my assess­ment, he gave me a word that sped back­wards across mem­o­ries of rela­tion­ship frus­tra­tions. I realised that I have a strong affin­i­ty for emo­tion­al­ly leg­i­ble art­forms because when I see cer­tain feel­ings por­trayed I gain the abil­i­ty to iden­ti­fy them in myself, like a mon­key recog­nis­ing itself in the mir­ror for the first time. Wes Ander­son char­ac­ters, by and large, sit on an ice­berg of emo­tion that colours their pres­ence with­out them ever own­ing it, per se. As Schwartz­man puts it, I feel like they’re quite emo­tion­al, the movies, in the way that it is when you’re sit­ting next to some­one and you know that they’ve got some­thing inside. But they’re not talk­ing about it and you’re like, Gosh, I can feel this. But we’re not talk­ing about it.’”

It was entire­ly about emo­tions,” says Ander­son about Aster­oid City. The form is a kind of con­coc­tion. We want to enter­tain the audi­ence. But the way we want­ed to do it with that one was… We thought we were cre­at­ing some kind of poem that even we didn’t ful­ly understand.”

At the out­set of Aster­oid City, Augie (Schwartz­man) has yet to tell his four chil­dren that their moth­er died three weeks ago. They have arrived at their desert town des­ti­na­tion, mono­grammed lug­gage lashed to a clapped-out car, for the Junior Stargaz­ers Con­ven­tion, to which inven­tor Woodrow (nick­named Braini­ac’ by his deceased moth­er) has been invit­ed to com­pete for a cash prize. Although the time is nev­er right to break news of this nature, Augie sits Woodrow and his triplet kid sis­ters – Pan­do­ra, Cas­siopeia, and Androm­e­da – down to final­ly lev­el with them.

Arid desert landscape with red rock formations, wooden signage, and a person standing near a telephone booth.

The death is announced with a brisk and respect­ful trans­paren­cy usu­al­ly observed between col­leagues of many years, rather than a 40-some­thing man and his chil­dren. It was intense,” says Schwartz­man, because, I was like, I don’t know what they know or don’t know or believe or don’t believe about real­ly every­thing – specif­i­cal­ly some­thing like death.” He cau­tions them against believ­ing plat­i­tudes (time doesn’t heal all wounds, at best it’s a band-aid) while con­ced­ing there is a lim­it to how much he can explain about this loss when the girls have no con­cept of time. Their reac­tion is vague, as none of them – not least Augie – can grasp the sig­nif­i­cance of this absence. (Who amongst us could?)

The accept­ed con­ven­tion­al ver­sion of this scene would have some­one falling to their knees and scream­ing at the heav­ens, but there is authen­tic­i­ty to the man­nered quiet­ness here. It’s how I have emo­tion­al con­ver­sa­tions, I don’t get hys­ter­i­cal,” says Lil­lian Craw­ford. I find it so much more mov­ing to see some­one fight­ing to be artic­u­late. Being autis­tic, for me, means that I often have 1000 things swim­ming around in my head, I have a mil­lion con­nec­tions being made all at once. And I’m try­ing to grasp at it, and place it, and con­nect it, and tie it down in a way that some­one else might under­stand, try­ing to remem­ber that oth­er peo­ple aren’t in my head.”

Saman­tha Hiew thinks that alex­ithymia (and a vari­ant dyslex­ithymia’, mean­ing the wrong words for feel­ings”) may be the neu­ro­di­ver­gent qual­i­ty that has the biggest impact on inti­mate rela­tion­ships: You can often feel like you’re stuck in a men­tal prison where you real­ly want to reach out but you can’t do it in the right way. You might get mis­un­der­stood. And maybe it’s a delay in pro­cess­ing thoughts as well. It might not be that you can­not feel, it might be that there’s a delay in feel­ing. Some­thing else down the road might trig­ger a par­tic­u­lar mem­o­ry that will then make you feel some­thing that you for­got to feel a few weeks before.”

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