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Sick sub­ur­ban sol­i­dar­i­ty in two unap­pre­ci­at­ed John Waters gems

12 Sep 2024

Words by Juan Barquin

While con­sid­ered by many to be minor works, Ser­i­al Mom and A Dirty Shame rep­re­sent some of our con­tem­po­rary con­cerns and anx­i­eties while offer­ing a sur­pris­ing­ly whole­some view of queer community.

There are few names in the his­to­ry of queer cin­e­ma that pro­voke as much of a glee­ful – or dis­gust­ed if you’re in polite soci­ety – reac­tion as John Waters. Over the decades, the man has gone from a mid­night movie trou­ble­mak­er to being a well-known celebri­ty of sorts, in no small part thanks to a bril­liant guest spot on The Simp­sons that queered many of the world’s chil­dren (includ­ing myself). His filth­i­est pic­tures (Pink Flamin­gos, Poly­ester) have been restored and cel­e­brat­ed, but those that came lat­er are often con­sid­ered less­er than his more provoca­tive ear­li­er works.

Ser­i­al Mom and A Dirty Shame are two such exam­ples and, arguably, are two of his best films in spite of their crit­i­cal and com­mer­cial fail­ure and, most impor­tant­ly, stu­dios that loathed what he’d made. Though they came ten years apart – one cel­e­brat­ing its thir­ti­eth anniver­sary this year, and the oth­er its twen­ti­eth – the pair are pitch-per­fect exten­sions of Waters’ brand of sub­ur­ban satire. They are the kind of films that, to some extent, present as main­stream” with­out actu­al­ly being designed for that kind of audi­ence, which is pre­cise­ly why the main­stream reject­ed them.

To tru­ly appre­ci­ate each one requires div­ing into what makes them trea­sures indi­vid­u­al­ly and what makes them rel­e­vant even today, and Ser­i­al Mom is an ide­al place to start. In his book, Mr. Know-It-All, Waters described the pic­ture to stu­dio execs as not the usu­al John Waters movie about crazy peo­ple in a crazy world, but a movie about a nor­mal per­son in a real­is­tic world doing the cra­zi­est thing of all as the audi­ence cheers her on!” This is exact­ly what Waters deliv­ers with Bev­er­ly Sut­phin, a play on the ide­al sit­com moth­er that Leave It To Beaver’s June Cleaver once rep­re­sent­ed, but with the twist being that she’s also a ser­i­al killer.

Ser­i­al Mom is designed to sub­vert expec­ta­tions of what nor­mal­cy” real­ly means and what that very idea can do to a per­son. Bev­er­ly, played by an exquis­ite Kath­leen Turn­er, is, as a char­ac­ter describes her, about as nor­mal and nice a lady as we’re ever going to find”. She’s also a foul-mouthed mur­der­er who will take out any­one who sets her off. These per­son­al­i­ties aren’t a rigid dichoto­my, Waters sug­gests, but rather two halves of a whole – the most abnor­mal peo­ple are those who present them­selves as pil­lars of prop­er society.

Prac­ti­cal­ly every one of the film’s scenes plays into this imbal­ance, with all of Beverly’s niceties being con­trast­ed by her sheer relent­less vil­lainy. Sure, she’s hap­py to make break­fast for every­one in the house­hold and recy­cles her garbage so well that the neigh­bor­hood trash col­lec­tors adore her for it, but she’s also will­ing to men­tal­ly tor­ture some­one via prank call for steal­ing a park­ing spot and mur­der some­one for not rewind­ing their VHS tapes (which, in fair­ness, is a crime). And Bev­er­ly, ulti­mate­ly, is some­one to root for in her crimes – she may be doing bad things, like hit­ting some­one with a phone for wear­ing white after Labor Day, but that ties into the twist­ed way we all some­times wish we could get away with a lit­tle ret­ri­bu­tion for our pet­ti­est grievances.

Per­haps the most inter­est­ing thing about Ser­i­al Mom isn’t Kath­leen Turner’s por­trait of a ser­i­al killer, but the way that this brand of vio­lence infil­trates every sin­gle facet of prop­er soci­ety” in Waters’ home­town and cin­e­mat­ic sta­ple Bal­ti­more. This is not lim­it­ed to the teenagers who watch Blood Feast and mas­tur­bate to Dead­ly Weapons, but extends to every­one in her vicin­i­ty. Take an estab­lish­ment that Waters has clear con­tempt for, the church itself, and how the pastor’s ser­mon amidst Berverly’s mur­der spree is about cap­i­tal pun­ish­ment. They cite Jesus Christ him­self as some­one who would (or should) have spo­ken out against it in the midst of being pub­licly mur­dered, and a fool­ish pub­lic nods in agree­ment at such an inane state­ment all the while clutch­ing their pearls at mur­der hap­pen­ing in their hometown.

If any­thing, Ser­i­al Mom’s rel­e­vance has only increased ten­fold in the thir­ty years since it came out. It isn’t just in its eerie pre­dic­tion of the 90s media spec­ta­cle that was the OJ Simp­son case, (the film came out just two months pri­or to his arrest and sub­se­quent show­stop­ping tri­al) but in the way that true crime has become embed­ded in Amer­i­can cul­ture beyond any rea­son­able sense. The third act court case – as much a spec­ta­cle as Simpson’s – is not just a laugh riot, but a clear con­dem­na­tion of the way that peo­ple per­ceive those in the spot­light. It is some­thing of a time­less crit­i­cism, one made obvi­ous by the pres­ence of Patri­cia Hearst as a juror – her­self some­one who was per­ceived by the pub­lic as both vic­tim and mon­ster when she went through a pub­lic court case in the 1970s relat­ed to her kid­nap­ping by the Sym­bionese Lib­er­a­tion Army. At her guilty ver­dict, she famous­ly sighed, I nev­er had a chance” but Waters’ defen­dant bless­ed­ly did.

Let’s make a gore movie about mom, or, bet­ter yet, a TV series” – a line uttered by Beverly’s own son, before he begins to sell the rights to their life sto­ry for a TV movie – is an even more scathing cri­tique now than it was in 1994, as is Suzanne Somers’ cameo to play the fem­i­nist hero­ine” that is our mur­der­ous moth­er. We now exist in an era when every oth­er new stream­ing series is ded­i­cat­ed to explor­ing the tales of ser­i­al killers, from Ryan Murphy’s end­less col­lec­tion of true crime reen­act­ments (his lat­est, Mon­ster, first tack­ling Jef­frey Dah­mer and, now, the Menen­dez broth­ers) to prac­ti­cal­ly every sin­gle cold case (and some­times even open ones) get­ting its own doc­u­men­tary miniseries.

Woman wearing a grey sleeveless jumpsuit standing in a domestic kitchen.

Even in the face of such atroc­i­ties, peo­ple are drawn to crim­i­nal actions and behav­iors that are deemed insane. It’s hard not to think about how Bev­er­ly Sut­phin would be get­ting this kind of treat­ment her­self, with even Waters’ film wink­ing at the audi­ence through the open­ing text crawl that specif­i­cal­ly address­es it being based on a true sto­ry” (even though it cer­tain­ly was not). That peo­ple didn’t under­stand Ser­i­al Mom isn’t a total sur­prise, as Amer­i­cans are not espe­cial­ly fond of wit­ness­ing their own shame­less­ness, and Savoy Pic­tures hat­ing the fact that a mur­der­er got away with it feels like a rel­ic of a more cen­so­ri­ous era than the 1990s. But it’s the def­i­n­i­tion of a cult clas­sic that now gets screened reg­u­lar­ly on Mother’s Day, and a bril­liant pic­ture that con­tin­ues to age like fine wine.

Waters’ the­sis on Amer­i­can nor­mal­cy is tak­en to even greater extremes in A Dirty Shame, his final film” (pend­ing a come­back with his adap­ta­tion of his own nov­el, Liar­mouth), which is one of his most for­got­ten and under­rat­ed films that also hap­pens to be one of his absolute best come­dies. If Ser­i­al Mom was about play­ing up how even the most nor­mal peo­ple could hold mur­der­ous intent with­in them, A Dirty Shame was about show­ing how nat­ur­al it is to be abnormal.

From top to bot­tom (and vers), it’s a queer cin­e­mat­ic trea­sure about the way soci­ety tries to shut down any­one with an iden­ti­ty that is declared abnor­mal. It feels like Waters pur­pose­ly looked up every kink or sex­u­al act back in the ear­ly 2000s – bear cul­ture, cun­nilin­gus, adult baby dia­per lovers, splosh­ing, exhi­bi­tion­ism, mysophil­ia, mas­tur­ba­tion, good old fash­ioned three­somes – just to pop­u­late his film with things that the aver­age view­er would find shock­ing. And, well, that’s exact­ly what he did. While it isn’t much of a shock these days (or even back then for queer view­ers), it cer­tain­ly was for the MPAA, who brand­ed it with the dread­ed NC-17 rat­ing that cursed it to obliv­ion and a hor­ren­dous­ly recut the­atri­cal ver­sion. It is, how­ev­er, a com­plete­ly ridicu­lous film, a riotous lit­tle sex com­e­dy inspired by the sex­ploita­tion films that Waters loves and spliced into his own cin­e­ma (includ­ing Ser­i­al Mom).

The film cen­ters around two groups: neuters and apos­tles. The for­mer – proud­ly declar­ing that neuter means nor­mal” – are the kind of peo­ple who believe repres­sion is the only way to live. They’re will­ing to lock a young woman up in her child­hood bed­room sim­ply to stop her from embrac­ing her exhi­bi­tion­ist ways, they hand out fly­ers and rant about how per­verts are tak­ing over the neigh­bor­hood” and they hate any show­case of sex­u­al­i­ty, even down to just a sim­ple pub­lic dis­play of affec­tion like kiss­ing. Suzanne Shep­herd and Mink Stole lead the brigade as Big Ethel and Marge, with their cru­sade against sex­u­al deviants com­ing across as overt­ly idi­ot­ic. But in spite of its absur­di­ty, down to the idea of forc­ing a young woman to go on Prozac to calm her sex­u­al urges, this kind of behav­ior is ground­ed in reality.

Young woman with curly hair, in a pink top, sitting in an armchair.

Once again, Waters’ scathing crit­i­cism of soci­ety is at the fore­front of this film and taps into how cycli­cal this kind of behav­ior is. Big Ethel and Marge aren’t so far from the way that con­ser­v­a­tive politi­cians used (and con­tin­ue to use) to per­se­cute gay men with a nation­al plat­form and oth­ers would encour­age con­ver­sion ther­a­py to fix” queer peo­ple. Just as Ani­ta Bryant once ter­ror­ized Flori­da, now we have Ron DeSan­tis ban­ning queer edu­ca­tion and strip­ping trans peo­ple of their rights. This extends beyond the Unit­ed States, with even the Unit­ed King­dom play­ing host to some of the most vocal big­ots in the world, like JK Rowl­ing, who use their plat­form to harass trans peo­ple and pre­vent them from access­ing health­care. These peo­ple weaponize their per­ceived nor­mal­cy” against those who are not, and posi­tion any­thing remote­ly oth­er” as monstrous.

But Waters knows that this is untrue, and instead frames the oth­er as noth­ing but tru­ly immac­u­late. The apos­tles are the film’s true gems, with even the most annoy­ing of queer sub­cul­tures (bears, with all their grrs and woofs) being treat­ed as part of a holy col­lec­tive that will free these neuters from the shack­les of repres­sion. At its core is none oth­er than Ray-Ray, played by John­ny Knoxville, who serves as a Christ­like fig­ure who can not only resus­ci­tate peo­ple but bring them plea­sure beyond their com­pre­hen­sion. Where most films would shy away from empha­siz­ing that spread­ing love” can and should include through sex­u­al means and plea­sure”, Waters com­mits to show­ing that sex­u­al free­dom and embrac­ing one’s iden­ti­ty is the only way to be tru­ly liberated.

The moth­er-daugh­ter duo of Sylvia and Caprice Stick­les (the lat­ter bet­ter known as Ursu­la Udders), played by Tracey Ull­man and Sel­ma Blair respec­tive­ly, are a per­fect means of show­cas­ing the strug­gle between neuters and apos­tles. Every­thing about life in the normal/​neuter world is one of mis­ery, with the unhap­py Sylvia (who won’t even have sex with her hus­band, played by Chris Isaak) lit­er­al­ly lock­ing up her daugh­ter to ensure that she can’t go out danc­ing and show­ing off her crim­i­nal­ly enlarged breasts”. In her sad­ness, Caprice sits around watch­ing The Red Shoes and lament­ing that she can’t be out danc­ing to Bil­ly Lee Riley’s Red Hot”, show­ing off her body to a num­ber of men, includ­ing her biggest fan, Fat Fuck Frank. The moment she is lib­er­at­ed via acci­den­tal head injury (the film’s means of change”), Sylvia real­izes that this kind of treat­ment is a mis­take. And, while it sounds idi­ot­ic, there’s some­thing tru­ly sin­cere and love­ly about Sylvia and Caprice’s rela­tion­ship and the way that the two bond when embrac­ing their iden­ti­ties – one as a cun­nilin­gus bot­tom” (a title bestowed to her by Ray-Ray) and the oth­er as an exhibitionist.

That beau­ty extends to the way that A Dirty Shame plays into everyone’s favorite queer film trope of the found fam­i­ly”, as the apos­tles are all lov­ing and accept­ing of each other’s iden­ti­ties. Every sin­gle one of Ray-Ray’s fol­low­ers gets at least a brief moment to shine, their com­mit­ment to the bit extend­ing beyond just a chance to laugh at actors like Jack­ie Hoff­man mas­tur­bat­ing furi­ous­ly or Hearst (in her fifth Waters film appear­ance) hold­ing up a bot­tle of pop­pers in an attempt to save Ray-Ray from the sex nul­li­fy­ing pow­ers of Prozac. As much as Waters wants you to laugh at the jokes he’s pre­sent­ing, he’s also fair­ly com­mit­ted to the unit­ing pow­er that comes with bond­ing with oth­er weirdos.

Twen­ty years after A Dirty Shame’s release, queer peo­ple find them­selves faced with dis­course about respectabil­i­ty pol­i­tics. In an era where more and more iden­ti­ties are becom­ing part of the main­stream, and peo­ple have got­ten the chance to tru­ly con­nect and devel­op, queer peo­ple who are com­fort­able with the sta­tus quo find them­selves falling into the realm of the neuter. Rather than suc­cumb to the idio­cy that is No Kink at Pride”, with queer peo­ple will­ing to throw each oth­er under the bus for being too sex­u­al” at an event that cel­e­brates their lib­er­a­tion, A Dirty Shame presents an ide­al alter­na­tive: all kink at pride. Down to its very cli­max, in which every­one in Bal­ti­more has become a sex addict and Ray-Ray cli­max­es all over the world (and screen), John Waters is offer­ing a hand to all those who have ever felt per­se­cut­ed for their sex­u­al­i­ty, not only to come with him, but to cum with him.

As many have not­ed in the past, genius is nev­er appre­ci­at­ed in its time, and to look back at these two movies is to bear wit­ness to a genius at work. John Waters him­self has joked, Is it per­verse that I like my lat­er films bet­ter than the ear­ly ones that made me the King of Puke’?” and it’s easy to see why. It isn’t just as he says they’re eas­i­er to watch and the act­ing is bet­ter”, but, rather, that they’re gen­uine­ly great and dense films. Beneath all the goofy humor lies a real love, not just for the his­to­ry of art (both music and film espe­cial­ly, which Waters lib­er­al­ly ref­er­ences) but for the col­lec­tion of weirdos that he always places on screen. No mat­ter how nor­mal” they might seem at first, they’re all a lit­tle crazy and strange, and that’s what makes them so beau­ti­ful. To him, the char­ac­ters of Ser­i­al Mom and A Dirty Shame aren’t peo­ple to be looked down on or chas­tised, but to be cheered on in all their filthy, mon­strous ways, and there’s noth­ing more beau­ti­ful than that kind of rad­i­cal acceptance.

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