Loving | Little White Lies

Lov­ing

03 Feb 2016 / Released: 03 Feb 2017

Words by Christina Newland

Directed by Jeff Nichols

Starring Joel Edgerton, Ruth Negga, and Will dalton

Two people embracing in a cosy, warm-toned room with floral curtains.
Two people embracing in a cosy, warm-toned room with floral curtains.
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Anticipation.

Jeff Nichols always brings a lot to the table, and tends to elicit great performances from his actors.

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Enjoyment.

Definitely got something in my eye.

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In Retrospect.

An understated and beautiful story about how ordinary folk took an extraordinary stand.

Ruth Neg­ga and Joel Edger­ton bring a qui­et ten­der­ness to this under­stat­ed tale of racial prej­u­dice in the Deep South.

It’s dif­fi­cult to imag­ine the police barg­ing into your home, pulling you and your spouse out of bed, and arrest­ing you for the crime of being mar­ried. But that’s the posi­tion in which Mil­dred and Richard Lov­ing found them­selves one sum­mer night back in 1958.

He, a white brick­lay­er, and her, a bira­cial woman of African her­itage, had left their home state of Vir­ginia to tie the knot, know­ing full well it was still ille­gal to do so at home. Their arrests set into motion a nine-year legal bat­tle which would result in a land­mark court case over the con­sti­tu­tion­al fea­si­bil­i­ty of inter­ra­cial mar­riage. In the mean­time, the Lov­ings were barred from enter­ing their home state for some 25 years.

Giv­en the sub­ject mat­ter, this lat­est effort from direc­tor Jeff Nichols could eas­i­ly have been stuffed with over­sized char­ac­ters and sen­ti­men­tal court­room speech­es. Instead, he takes the oppo­site approach. The dialled back per­for­mances and lack of for­mal histri­on­ics make the film’s ten­der­ness all the more affect­ing. The film deals with the com­mon sense demand that a heart­felt mar­riage be treat­ed with respect. That the per­son­al becomes so deeply polit­i­cal goes with­out say­ing, but Nichols takes care nev­er to overem­pha­sise the roman­tic essence of this story.

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A com­mit­ted Joel Edger­ton plays Richard, a sim­ple man with a qui­et and surly demeanour. All buzz cut and hard squint, his gruff­ness is soft­ened by his com­plete devo­tion to his wife. Mil­dred (Ruth Neg­ga) is a soft­ly-spo­ken house­wife with three ram­bunc­tious young chil­dren underfoot.

But Neg­ga reveals the iron will beneath Mildred’s gen­tle exte­ri­or. After the couple’s de fac­to exile, it is Mil­dred who first sets mat­ters into motion by writ­ing a let­ter to civ­il rights cham­pi­on, Robert Kennedy. But when the ACLU unex­pect­ed­ly calls with an offer of help, she demurs: Well, I’ll have to speak to my husband.”

Nation­al news­pa­per­men and cam­era crews descend on their doorstep. It quick­ly becomes clear that nei­ther hus­band nor wife are nat­ur­al lead­ers. With that in mind, it’s strik­ing that Mil­dred takes the lead and speaks up, while Richard is tight-lipped and uncom­fort­able. Is it because she, a black woman, sim­ply feels the sting of exclu­sion more than her hus­band ever will?

Four adults, two men and two women, standing together in a field.

It’s appar­ent that she’s fierce­ly home­sick, but her desire to return to the Vir­ginia coun­try­side to raise her chil­dren is root­ed in much more than that. It’s about return­ing to the home she has cho­sen for them, mak­ing them legit­i­mate in the eyes of the law, and know­ing they will grow up to mar­ry whomev­er they wish.

Nichols has already shown an affin­i­ty for the sleepy, pas­toral Amer­i­can South, and the great­ness of Lov­ing is locat­ed in his feel­ing for the couple’s very ordi­nary South­er­ness. In spite of all the pub­lic­i­ty, they have no pre­ten­sions toward activism nor any incli­na­tion toward mak­ing grand state­ments. Their ambi­tions are as sim­ple as they come: to main­tain their mar­riage, and do so in their cho­sen home­stead. The insid­i­ous­ness of any law pre­vent­ing a fam­i­ly from doing so is plain. The Lov­ings most spe­cial qual­i­ty is sim­ply that they decid­ed to take a stand.

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