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Life, Lib­er­ty, and All the Rest of It”: Read­ing The God­fa­ther in To Die For

19 Jun 2025

Half of a woman's face and half of a man's face, in black and white.
Half of a woman's face and half of a man's face, in black and white.

Con­sid­er the par­al­lels between Suzanne Maret­to and Michael Cor­leone as Gus Van San­t’s sul­try satire turns 30.

Since its debut at Cannes in May 1995To Die For, Gus Van Sant’s sharp, chilly break­out into the Hol­ly­wood main­stream, has been almost exclu­sive­ly dis­cussed as a prod­uct of the tabloid-and-24-hour-news-cycle media ecosys­tem of its moment. For good rea­son: this pas­tel and formi­ca TV news satire is an adap­ta­tion of Judith Maynard’s nov­el­i­sa­tion of the 1991 case of Pamela Smart, a school admin­is­tra­tor who seduced and manip­u­lat­ed a group of 15-year-old boys into killing her hus­band; while devel­op­ing the script writer Buck Hen­ry was direct­ly inspired by the ongo­ing Tonya Hard­ing scan­dal; dur­ing film­ing Van Sant recalls that crewmem­bers once broke off in the mid­dle of shoot­ing a jail­house con­fes­sion scene to watch the live broad­cast of OJ Simpson’s low-speed police chase. (Inci­den­tal­ly, Simp­son would be found not guilty’ of mur­der the same week that To Die For released.)

These fre­net­ic influ­ences are clear­ly the pri­ma­ry dri­vers of To Die For, which fol­lows the beau­ti­ful, big­ot­ed, vicious­ly self-absorbed Suzanne Maret­to née Stone (Nicole Kid­man), in her sin­gle-mind­ed mis­sion to hit prime­time. As we learn through a non­lin­ear brico­lage of tell-all inter­views, home footage, and nar­ra­tive scenes, when Suzanne’s unam­bi­tious, fam­i­ly-ori­ent­ed hus­band Lar­ry (Matt Dil­lon) asks her to give up her dream, she effi­cient­ly arranges his mur­der using Night­line and The Sal­ly Jessy Raphael Show as her guides. This is Suzanne’s down­fall; while she under­stands the ruth­less­ly straight­for­ward, eas­i­ly digestible log­ics of TV, the con­tin­gen­cies and emo­tion­al nuances of real life prove too com­pli­cat­ed for her. 

But TV isn’t the film’s only inspi­ra­tion. There seem to be two, maybe two-and-a-half movies at work here,” David Rimanel­li mused of this frac­tal and refrac­tive satire in his Art­fo­rum review, the über­movie that prof­fers a satire of tele­vi­sion and lust for fame” and sev­er­al inter­sti­tial, under’ movie(s).” Though Rimanel­li doesn’t men­tion it, one of those under movies” is – per­haps unex­pect­ed­ly – Fran­cis Ford Coppola’s The God­fa­ther. In To Die Fors open­ing pas­sages, we’re intro­duced to the doomed couple’s par­ents as they’re inter­viewed togeth­er on a talk show. Suzanne’s wealthy WASP father (Kurt­wood Smith) recounts how he was dubi­ous of Suzanne and Larry’s match from the begin­ning: For all you know,” he recalls warn­ing his daugh­ter, his fam­i­ly could be mixed up with the mafia or something!” 

Off­screen, the crowd tit­ters at the stereo­type, but Larry’s father, Joe (Dan Hedaya), remains sto­ic. I under­stand, I under­stand,” he mum­bles ami­ca­bly – before we cut sharply to an aban­doned boathouse on a frozen lake where a high, fem­i­nine scream pierces the day’s tran­quil­i­ty. While this flash­cut could fea­si­bly be a depar­ture into fan­ta­sy giv­en the film’s dream­like visu­al lan­guage and non­lin­ear sto­ry­telling strate­gies (watch­ing it for the first time I cer­tain­ly assumed as much), we even­tu­al­ly learn that this cut fore­shad­ows Suzanne’s even­tu­al demise at the hands of the cosa nos­tra. I thought he’d mar­ry a nice Ital­ian girl,” Joe con­tin­ues with a smile and a pat of his wife’s hand, but like that guy in The God­fa­ther said, This is Amer­i­ca!’ The melt­ing pot.” 

Nicole Kidman dressed in a yellow patterned blouse stands in front of a wall. Sitting on the wall are a young Joaquin Phoenix, Casey Affleck and Busy Phillips, who are all dressed in jeans and jackets.
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Nicole Kidman, Joaquin Phoenix, Casey Affleck and Busy Phillips in To Die For (1995)

But of course, this is not the line in The God­fa­ther. The scene Joe is mis­quot­ing, the first film’s famous open­ing mono­logue (“I believe in Amer­i­ca…”), depicts a father, Ameri­go Bonasera, reject­ing assim­i­la­tion in the wake of an act of sense­less vio­lence against his child, a plea for old school vengeance after the courts fail him in an elit­ist, biased sys­tem rigged against work­ing class peo­ple – like the Maret­tos in To Die For. Far from a sim­ple tongue-in-cheek pop cul­ture ref­er­ence, this ini­tial allu­sion to The God­fa­ther proves to be a cen­tral struc­tur­ing ele­ment for the film. After her arrest for Larry’s mur­der, Suzanne goes on live TV and calls her dead hus­band a coke addict. When she’s asked to make a state­ment on the steps of the cour­t­house, she grins and says, I’m just glad to live in a coun­try where life, lib­er­ty…” she paus­es, search­ing “…and all the rest of it still means something.” 

It’s this offense to his son’s hon­or and this per­verse invo­ca­tion of Amer­i­can jus­tice (recall Bonasera: I stood in the court­room like a fool…I said to my wife, for jus­tice, we must go to Don Cor­leone’”) that dri­ves Joe to orga­nize the hit on his own daugh­ter-in-law, even invit­ing the cops to his Ital­ian restau­rant for din­ner while it hap­pens in a wink to Michael’s killing of a police cap­tain in The God­fa­ther. Suzanne mean­while, times her husband’s slay­ing for when she’s deliv­er­ing a weath­er report, in the same way Michael attends the bap­tism of his first god­son as his ene­mies are slaugh­tered, both actions cross-cut with the vio­lence they ordered. For all of the focus on Suzanne’s rela­tion­ships with the teens she tricks into killing Lar­ry, and then the time spent on Suzanne’s strug­gle to worm her way into the TV-indus­try peck­ing order as a local weath­er girl, even­tu­al­ly the sto­ry becomes as sim­ple as an act of vio­lent dis­re­spect (a mat­ri­cide) and an even sim­pler act of vio­lent revenge (a gang­land assas­si­na­tion). Just under the sur­face of the plot, a mafia sto­ry lies in wait, final­ly burst­ing forth in a flash of bru­tal­i­ty that rein­sti­tutes the (pater)familial rules that Suzanne, a char­ac­ter Janet Maslin called a media-mad mon­ster” has flaunt­ed throughout. 

Beyond an over­ar­ch­ing nar­ra­tive frame, the influ­ence of The God­fa­ther on the sto­ry also illu­mi­nates the the­mat­ic ten­sions Suzanne embod­ies through­out To Die For: In her ego­ma­ni­a­cal quest for suc­cess in her career, which quick­ly comes into vio­lent con­flict with her tra­di­tion­al­ly fem­i­nine role as Larry’s wife, Suzanne becomes an uncan­ny blend of Michael Cor­leone and his own beau­ti­ful WASP bride, Kaye Adams-Cor­leone (who, like Suzanne using her pro­fes­sion­al” maid­en name to avoid eth­nic” assump­tions, insists on keep­ing her own name at least pro­vi­sion­al­ly). In his book Pop Cul­ture and the Dark Side of the Amer­i­can Dream’, Paul Can­tor sug­gests that The God­fa­ther iden­ti­fies two arche­typ­i­cal­ly con­flict­ing polar­i­ties” to that Amer­i­can ide­al: Busi­ness ver­sus fam­i­ly, and the Old World” (embod­ied by trib­al­ism, patron­age and vio­lence) ver­sus the New World” (framed as cap­i­tal­is­tic, prag­mat­ic, and ratio­nal­ly mod­ern). Can­tor sug­gests that the ten­sions between these polar­i­ties are the ulti­mate tragedy of The God­fa­ther, iron­i­cal­ly observ­ing that Many of the core virtues that make a good Amer­i­can para­dox­i­cal­ly turn out to make a good crim­i­nal as well – the dri­ve to make some­thing of one­self, the com­pul­sion to suc­ceed, the will­ing­ness to stand up for one­self, a com­mit­ment to hard work and self-dis­ci­pline, a sense of self-reliance and refusal to become depen­dent on any­one, the courage to respond to challenges.” 

But what To Die For empha­sizes is that these virtues” are also high­ly gen­dered: A good Amer­i­can man should shun depen­den­cy and strive, while a good Amer­i­can woman, con­verse­ly, should set­tle down and sub­mit to the head of her fam­i­ly, her father or hus­band (“I’ll still nev­er find a man like you, dad­dy” Suzanne whis­pers in her father’s ear as she leaves for her hon­ey­moon). Michael Cor­leone injects the cap­i­tal­is­tic prag­ma­tism and ratio­nal­i­ty of New World” moder­ni­ty with the vio­lence and trib­al­ism of the Old World” in his cal­cu­lat­ed, savvy approach to the fam­i­ly busi­ness, but at the cost of his fam­i­ly, a trag­ic choice he ulti­mate­ly makes with­out ques­tion. With this deci­sion, he takes on a tra­di­tion­al­ly mas­cu­line, at least some­what pater­nal­is­ti­cal­ly noble” – if obvi­ous­ly malev­o­lent – role in the process. But, Suzanne’s choice offers no such arche­typ­al avenue; her deci­sion to attack her would-be career with the same dri­ve Michael treats being God­fa­ther while cloaked in weaponized fem­i­nin­i­ty becomes some­thing overt­ly mon­strous, made explic­it­ly damn­ing by the fact that, as David Den­by observed in The New York Times (with no small help­ing of glib chau­vin­ism) we imme­di­ate­ly see that this pas­tel-pink crea­ture isn’t going to make it as a star – she’s too avid, too igno­rant, a Cos­mo cov­er pea brain.” 

Nicole Kidman and Matt Dillion stand in a bathroom with blue polka dot wallpaper. Nicole is wearing a nightgown that exposes a small rose tattoo on her chest. Matt is wearing a red striped bathrobe and a white vest.
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Nicole Kidman and Matt Dillon in To Die For (1995)

Where Kaye, her prop­er” WASP-wife ana­logue, is a blonde, col­lege-edu­cat­ed school teacher who (at least at the out­set) loves Michael uncon­di­tion­al­ly, embody­ing both famil­ial inno­cence and a New World” kind of fem­i­nine con­sumeris­tic con­tent­ment (she’s shown buy­ing Christ­mas presents, orga­niz­ing trips, going to the the­ater, get­ting ready to set­tle down with Michael), To Die For goes out of its way to stress that Suzanne is only par­tial­ly edu­cat­ed (“junior col­lege” her father reluc­tant­ly admits), and anti-mater­nal, a seduc­er of school chil­dren, a would-be work­ing woman des­tined to fail­ure by her own van­i­ty and shal­low­ness. As the pre­vi­ous quote sug­gests, many reviews con­tin­u­al­ly empha­sized Suzanne’s lack of intel­li­gence – or, per Nation­al Review, just the right amount of dumb­ness” – and it’s this dimwit­ted­ness, paired with an overde­vel­oped sense of elit­ist enti­tle­ment, that leads to Suzanne’s ulti­mate demise. Vague­ly fem­i­nist emo­tions stir in my breast,” David Den­by wrote of this aspect of Suzanne’s char­ac­ter (some­what iron­i­cal­ly giv­en his own misog­y­nis­tic descrip­tion of the char­ac­ter), Hen­ry and Van Sant have hal­lowed [her] out, as if an ambi­tious dri­ven woman need­ed to be exposed as a jerk. What would hap­pen if Matt Dil­lon were the ambi­tious one?” he asks. Well, he might have been Michael Corleone. 

At the same time, Suzanne is no Kaye either. While Kaye’s WASPy puri­ty and inno­cence frame her as a poten­tial oasis of all-Amer­i­can­ness for Michael, Suzanne’s sur­face-lev­el sim­i­lar­i­ties to Kaye are framed as a ster­ile trap for Lar­ry. She’s so pure and del­i­cate” Lar­ry ini­tial­ly mar­vels, com­par­ing her looks to a frag­ile chi­na doll, You just have to look at her and you wan­na take care of her the rest of your life.” But Suzanne doesn’t want Larry’s care, she wants inde­pen­dence and suc­cess, and she will kill to get it, despi­ca­ble in part because the movie posits she was nev­er smart enough to make it. When Lar­ry asks whether she wants kids, Suzanne spits, If you want­ed a babysit­ter you should’ve mar­ried Mary Pop­pins.” She’s bewitch­ing, but dead­ly, a fem­i­nine mon­ster who’s repeat­ed­ly asso­ci­at­ed with witch­es through cuts to Bell, Book and Can­dle on TV in the back­ground and the use of Donovan’s Sea­son of the Witch’ at the film’s con­clu­sion. Like a witch who enchants men for her own pur­pos­es, Suzanne is hyper-per­for­ma­tive and über-prag­mat­ic, using the racist, clas­sist, elit­ist log­ics of tele­vi­sion as her yard­stick for life. 

Suzanne views her doll-like ice queen” beau­ty as a means to an end, weaponiz­ing her sta­tus as an avatar for the tele­vi­su­al benef­i­cence Kaye types typ­i­cal­ly rep­re­sent. She reli­gious­ly pre­serves her pal­lor (or her pure” white­ness in con­trast to what she calls the eth­nic” dis­ad­van­tages of anchors like Con­nie Chung), con­stant­ly tries to lose the five pounds the cam­era adds, and wears her pas­tel miniskirts and kit­ten heels like an army uni­form, no mat­ter how schlub­bi­ly her cowork­ers may dress for the office. She tells every­one around her to opti­mize” them­selves to suc­ceed,” and final­ly uses trail­er trash” teens to kill Lar­ry. Lack­ing the excus­es Michael has for his actions, she weaponizes the famil­iar nar­ra­tive true crime tropes her Kaye-like exte­ri­or offers – inno­cence and vic­tim­iza­tion – turn­ing them on her hus­band and draw­ing the cam­eras she so des­per­ate­ly craves in the process. Who are they gonna believe?” she asks prim­ly, I come from a good fam­i­ly.” One review put it this way: What jury would con­vict such an attrac­tive and pop­u­lar TV weath­er girl? (ask O.J., he’ll tell you).” 

Only Larry’s sis­ter, Jan­ice (Illeana Dou­glas), sees through this del­i­cate façade, call­ing Suzanne an ice queen” and a four let­ter word: C‑O-L‑D, cold.” Where Michael Corleone’s sig­na­ture cold­ness is pre­sent­ed as an exten­sion of the Amer­i­can cap­i­tal­ist imper­a­tive, Suzanne’s sta­tus as an ice queen” is pre­sent­ed as a mon­strous exten­sion of that all-Amer­i­can medi­um of New World” moder­ni­ty, tele­vi­sion. In this sense, Suzanne’s rel­a­tive cold­ness” is her defin­ing char­ac­ter­is­tic and the prin­ci­ple that uni­fies the film’s themes – as Mar­shall McLuhan sug­gests, tele­vi­sion is a cool medi­um, mes­mer­ic and pas­si­fy­ing, and, icy though she may be, it’s her avid­i­ty,” her pas­sion­ate desire to make it (her fail­ure to tru­ly embody Michael’s busi­nesslike New World” men­tal­i­ty) that fails her. She looks very frag­ile and del­i­cate right?” Lar­ry tells Jan­ice when they start dat­ing, But when we’re– when I’m… the details are too graph­ic, but she’s like a volcano.” 

Closeup of Nicole Kidman's blue eyes on a television screen in a living room.
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Nicole Kidman in To Die For (1995)

Per­haps it’s no coin­ci­dence then that the final mafia hit comes in the form of an unlike­ly cameo by David Cro­nen­berg, play­ing an assas­sin, pos­ing as a TV exec. Cro­nen­berg may not be Ital­ian, but he is the auteur behind that clas­sic trea­tise on the McLuhan­ite dan­gers and ambigu­ous erotics of tele­vi­sion, Video­drome – a film Van Sant seems to draw on in a scene of Suzanne’s young lover (Joaquin Phoenix) mas­tur­bat­ing to her fan­ta­sy image talk­ing dirty to him over the tube. In our fast mov­ing com­put­er age,” Suzanne recites lat­er dur­ing an inter­view, cop­ping her lines from George Segal in an ear­li­er cameo: it’s the medi­um of tele­vi­sion that brings togeth­er our glob­al com­mu­ni­ty, and it is the tele­vi­sion jour­nal­ist who serves as mes­sen­ger, bring­ing the world into our homes and our homes into the world. It has always been my dream to become such a mes­sen­ger.” Cronenberg’s oth­er­wise inex­plic­a­ble pres­ence in the film can be viewed, then, as a force­ful admon­ish­ment of Suzanne’s ambi­tions here: The medi­um is the mes­sage!” 

As John Ganz points out in his recent book When the Clock Broke: Con Men, Con­spir­acists, and How Amer­i­ca Cracked Up in the Ear­ly 1990s, a par­tic­u­lar strain of Amer­i­can con­ser­v­a­tive intel­lec­tu­al believed that the mob­ster, espe­cial­ly as por­trayed in The God­fa­ther, was a gov­ern­ing Amer­i­can myth on the lev­el of the cow­boy” in the 90s, and the rash of mafia (and explic­it­ly God­fa­ther-adja­cent) films ear­ly into the decade – Good­fel­lasThe Fresh­manThe God­fa­ther Part IIIand Miller’s Cross­ing in 1990 alone – seems to back this con­tention up. He cites the 1992 tri­al of anoth­er tabloid favorite, mob­ster John Got­ti, and the sub­se­quent folk hero sta­tus it earned him, to sug­gest that the mob­ster was a sym­bol of order, the old order that many longed for still” in a time of rapid globalization. 

In this con­text, here Suzanne presents the ster­ile-yet-fem­i­nized dan­gers of uncon­strained tele­vi­su­al glob­al hege­mo­ny, while Cro­nen­berg and his mafia hit rep­re­sent the rein­sti­tu­tion of Old World” trib­al­ist patri­ar­chal order against it. Still, in many ways, the film also presages our mod­ern fas­ci­na­tion with unlike­able female char­ac­ters.” Suzanne, who crit­ics called a barbed-wire Bar­bie,” and crazy as a loon, but also a fox,” will do any­thing to make it, includ­ing decide to kill her hus­band with absolute­ly zero remorse. Larry’s a nice guy,” she admits by way of expla­na­tion, but he does­n’t know a thing about tele­vi­sion.” One can almost hear The Godfather’s voice: It’s just business.” 

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